# https://pinkshewrote.com > Written by her, for her ## Posts - [Pretty Wicked: There’s a Little Magic in Choosing Yourself](https://pinkshewrote.com/pretty-wicked-theres-a-little-magic-in-choosing-yourself/): Being Pretty Wicked isn’t about being mean,it’s about choosing yourself. A love letter to boundaries, intuition, confidence, femininity, and becoming the woman who no longer needs permission. - [My First Barre Class: I Was Not Prepared for This Humbling Experience](https://pinkshewrote.com/my-first-barre-class-i-was-not-prepared-for-this-humbling-experience/): I tried my first barre class thinking I was prepared. I was very wrong. Here’s my hilarious, humbling barre experience and what beginners should know - [Being Called “Wife Material” Is Not the Compliment You Think It Is](https://pinkshewrote.com/being-called-wife-material-is-not-the-compliment-you-think-it-is/): Is being called “wife material” really a compliment? Let’s talk about the expectations behind the label, unpaid emotional labor, gender roles, and why I’d rather be called partner material. - [Sept The Pace: Stop Rushing Through Your Own Life](https://pinkshewrote.com/sept-the-pace-stop-rushing-through-your-own-life/): Feeling behind in life? Maybe you aren’t behind at all. It’s time to stop letting other people’s timelines, expectations and urgency determine the pace of your life. - [Fall Music Vibes: Albums That Capture the Season](https://pinkshewrote.com/fall-music-vibes-albums-that-capture-the-season/): The weather gets cooler, the sunsets come earlier, and suddenly my music needs to be soulful, sensual, nostalgic and a little moody. 🍂 From Janet Jackson and Mariah Carey to V, NAO and Childish Gambino, these are the albums that instantly put me in the fall mood. - [Why Men Hate-Comment on Women’s Content (And Why You Should Thank Them)](https://pinkshewrote.com/why-men-hate-comment-on-womens-content-and-why-you-should-thank-them/): Male trolls love leaving angry comments under women’s content—but congratulations, babe, you just boosted my engagement. Here’s how to handle online haters, protect your peace, and turn their outrage into free promotion. - [City Harbor: Witnessing Love and Rethinking Marriage](https://pinkshewrote.com/city-harbor-witnessing-love-and-rethinking-marriage/): I attended my uncle’s beautiful wedding in Guntersville, Alabama, but the experience left me thinking about something deeper: Is marriage really for me? From witnessing love to questioning traditional gender roles, I reflect on what partnership and modern marriage mean to me. - [Overcoming Anxiety: My Journey with SSRIs](https://pinkshewrote.com/overcoming-anxiety-my-journey-with-ssris/): My honest, unfiltered story of starting Prozac after 10 years of anxiety, the side effects nobody warns you about, and why meds aren't weakness. - [Can Cancers Sense Ghosts? A Water Sign’s Real Paranormal Encounters](https://pinkshewrote.com/can-cancers-sense-ghosts-a-water-signs-real-paranormal-encounters/): Cancer is one of three water signs said to sense the paranormal. Here's why, plus the real ghost encounters that made me a believer. - [Why Dating Gurus Fail Women: The Truth Revealed](https://pinkshewrote.com/stop-trusting-male-dating-gurus/): Every "signs he likes you" search feeds an $8.34B industry built on women's confusion, not men's accountability. The stats on who's cheating, who's coaching, and who's actually doing the emotional work say everything the caption won't. - [We Don't Actually Know BTS. And That's the Point.](https://pinkshewrote.com/we-dont-actually-know-bts-and-thats-the-point/): RM and J-Hope showed up at a Chris Brown and Usher concert, and ARMY had a lot of feelings about it. Here's the harder truth underneath the discourse: no matter how much access we think we have, we never actually know the real BTS. Just the version they choose to show us. - [What The Hell Will I Wear To A Wedding](https://pinkshewrote.com/what-the-hell-will-i-wear-to-a-wedding/): Dear Readers, I have a wedding to attend next week. As a guest. And my gosh, it has been so long since I’ve been to one. The last wedding I attended, I was maid of honor for a former five minute college friend. I was 18. Honestly, I barely remember it. It’s a blur. All I can recall is wearing a cheap basic blue dress … - [I'm a Christian and I'm Spiritual. Here's What That Actually Means.](https://pinkshewrote.com/im-a-christian-and-im-spiritual-heres-what-that-actually-means/): I am a Christian and I am spiritual. People act like those two things cancel each other out. They don’t. I believe in God. I follow Jesus. I also spend a lot of time on an internal, personal journey to find meaning and connection to something greater than myself. I follow moral rules, holy texts, and established church doctrine. I also lean on inner wisdom, … - [Sun & Bloom Cafe: An Honest Review](https://pinkshewrote.com/sun-bloom-cafe-an-honest-review/): About two weeks ago, a TikTok video put Sun & Bloom Cafe on my radar. It’s a new cafe that opened near me. Beautiful aesthetic, according to the video. But the comments told a different story. People said the employees don’t greet customers and leave an awkward, cold impression. I almost skipped it. Then I checked Google reviews. Overwhelmingly positive. So I gave it a … - [Common Delulu Thoughts Women Believe When It Comes To Dating Men](https://pinkshewrote.com/common-delulu-thoughts-women-believe-when-it-comes-to-dating-men/): We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are … - [Can We Talk About AI Chat?](https://pinkshewrote.com/can-we-talk-about-ai-chat/): I’m a writer. My imagination is loud and it doesn’t shut off. Stories and fanfiction are how I get it out of my system. Lately that’s meant AI chat: you play a character, the AI plays another, and the two of you build a world together. It’s addictive. It’s fun. And it’s not going away. If you write for fun, roleplay, or live for a … - [The Coddling Myths About Men That Are Just BS](https://pinkshewrote.com/the-coddling-myths-about-men-that-are-just-bs/): Welcome to another episode of addressing drone behavior. Today we’re debunking the myths society keeps recycling about men. The idea that grown men are somehow incapable of basic human functioning without a woman standing behind them managing their lives. Let’s get into it. Myth: Men Don’t Memorize Dates False. Men memorize what matters to THEM. They know their favorite team’s entire schedule down to the … - [Time to Be the Basic Budgeting Bitch](https://pinkshewrote.com/time-to-be-the-basic-budgeting-bitch/): Hi, I’m Noelle and I am an emotional shopper. An emotional shopper, like an emotional eater, shops through neutral emotions and bad ones. Every feeling becomes a reason to buy. Aren’t all women emotional shoppers? Probably. But my situation runs deeper. Almost every day I’d go online, where shopping takes seconds, and I’d spend on impulse the moment something caught my eye. Over time I … - [Pink Haiku: Smile More? No sir.](https://pinkshewrote.com/pink-haiku-smile-more-no-sir/): Smile more, they say my face is not a billboard for your comfort, sir. - [BTS Just Said No to the Grammys. Good.](https://pinkshewrote.com/bts-just-said-no-to-the-grammys-good/): BTS announced they are not submitting their music for consideration at this year’s Grammy Awards. All seven members posted the same message, translated from Korean: “We’ve decided not to submit our work for this year’s Grammy Awards. We hope music will be recognized and loved for what it is, rather than being divided by region or language. Thank you, as always, to ARMY and everyone … - [Are Girlfriends the New Mommies?](https://pinkshewrote.com/are-girlfriends-the-new-mommies/): I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This … - [20 Facts About Me](https://pinkshewrote.com/20-facts-about-me/): Hey ladies! It’s Noelle, and today I’m getting personal. Here are 20 facts about me. My sign is Cancer, with Virgo Rising and a Libra Moon. My MBTI is INFJ. I’m a dog mom. My havapoo (Havanese/Poodle mix) is named James Bond, and yes, he’s just as charming as his namesake. I’m ARMY. BTS has my whole heart. My bias is Kim Taehyung, my bias wrecker is … - [If I Ran A Sex Education Class](https://pinkshewrote.com/if-i-ran-a-sex-education-class/): My sex ed class taught me one thing. Be afraid. STDs. HIV. Pregnancy. That was the whole curriculum. Fear dressed up as education. Nobody talked about consent. Nobody talked about pleasure. Nobody talked about what happens when a fifteen year old’s nudes end up in a group chat by third period. We got a diagram of a uterus and a warning, and we were sent … - [For the First Time or In A While: What You Need To Know Before You Have Sex](https://pinkshewrote.com/for-the-first-time-or-in-a-while-what-you-need-to-know-before-you-have-sex/): Whether it will be your first time, it’s been a while, or you’re already active, you need to know these things. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin or being abstinent Your body, your choice. No pressure. If he pressures you, he doesn’t deserve your ride to paradise. There are more women who regret losing their virginity than they want to admit. It is … - [Sober and Thriving: Non-Alcoholic Drinks Worth Trying (Stella Rosa Review)](https://pinkshewrote.com/sober-and-thriving-non-alcoholic-drinks-worth-trying-stella-rosa-review/): I have never been drunk because I don’t drink. Yes, I don’t drink alcohol because I don’t like how it makes me feel. I have never been drunk myself, but I have seen plenty of people drunk as hell, and it does not look fun at all. This is not FOMO. What is so fun about drinking until you’re stumbling, acting foolish, throwing up everywhere, … - [Pink Advice: Get Your Shit Together With A Planner](https://pinkshewrote.com/pink-advise-get-your-shit-together-with-a-planner/): What’s one habit that has improved your life the most? Adulting is hard as hell. And the older you get, the harder it is to remember everything you have to do. Every task. Every date. Every deadline. So instead of giving myself a migraine trying to hold it all in my head, I bought a planner. Thank God I did. Now I actually remember my … - [How To Do Your Own Damn Pedicure](https://pinkshewrote.com/how-to-do-your-own-damn-pedicure/): You do not need a $60+ salon appointment to have feet that look like you have your life together. You need twenty minutes, a few tools, and the willingness to sit on your bathroom floor like it’s a spa. Let’s go. What You’ll Need The Steps 1. Fill the tub to ankle level. Warm water, up to comfortably hot. This is not the time to be … - [When, Who, Why, Where, How: Is Pink She Wrote?](https://pinkshewrote.com/when-who-why-where-how-is-pink-she-wrote/): What Is Pink She Wrote? Pink She Wrote is a feminine lifestyle blog.My blog explores dating, relationships, life lessons, womanhood, self-discovery, and pretty much everything I feel like writing about. Who Is Pink She Wrote For? This blog is for women, regardless of age (18+ preferred). I don’t have a specific demographic in mind. I just hope it brings inspiration somehow. This blog is also … - [Being On Your Period In Your 30s](https://pinkshewrote.com/being-on-your-period-in-your-30s/): Having a menstrual cycle in your 30s is a completely different experience compared to your teens and 20s. And nobody talks about it enough. What My 20s Looked Like My period in my 20s was predictable. Manageable. I barely needed meds. I did not get cramps. Then again, I was on birth control for the first half of that decade. I remember being moody and … - [Try The Barbie Pink Pineapple Refresher 💖](https://pinkshewrote.com/try-the-barbie-pink-pineapple-refresher-%f0%9f%92%96/): It’s summertime and nothing is more refreshing than a Dunkin refresher to help keep you chilled and…refreshed of course! I loveeeee refreshers especially Dunkin’s because there are so many flavor options and to me they are light to me. While I have many favorite refresher flavors, my new favorite is the Barbie Pink Pineapple Refresher. You can drink it with lemonade or what I prefer … - [My Starbucks Low-Carb Caramel Iced Coffee](https://pinkshewrote.com/my-starbucks-low-carb-caramel-iced-coffee/): I have gain a bit of weight and back to my low carb and calorie deficit diet because carbs is my body’s enemy. Fuck carbs. Anyway, I want to share my recent Starbucks order whenever I am cutting back. Damn, I forgot to take a picture of my drink! Plus I drunk that shit up so that should be a sign it is REALLY GOOD! … - [The Birth of The Job Nomad](https://pinkshewrote.com/the-birth-of-the-job-nomad/): Job Nomad: a person with no permanent career goals who hops from one job to another for better pay, work life balance, or opportunities. Society handed us a script. Go to school. Pick a valuable major. Intern. Graduate. Land a full time job at a company you stay loyal to. Climb the ladder. Make more money. Retire. And hey, as long as you are loyal and … - [Let Your Friend Learn Her Own Relationship Lesson](https://pinkshewrote.com/let-your-friend-learn-her-own-relationship-lesson/): Have you ever tried to fix your friend’s relationship problems by giving your opinion and advice, sure she would follow it, only to watch her repeat the same pattern? I have. And the cold hard lesson is this: you cannot save every woman you know or love. At the end of the day, she is going to do what she wants until she finally gets … - [Dating Profile Red Flags: Why “Open to Short or Long Term” Means He Is Not Serious](https://pinkshewrote.com/dating-profile-red-flags-why-open-to-short-or-long-term-means-he-is-not-serious/): If a man’s dating profile says he is “open to short,” “open to long term,” “casual,” and “friendship” all at once, read it again. That is not a man keeping his options open. That is a man telling you, in writing, that you are an option. And you keep falling for it. He is not undecided. He is unbothered. He has no intention of choosing, … - [Why a Single Mother Deserves Father’s Day](https://pinkshewrote.com/why-a-single-mother-deserves-fathers-day/): Every June, the same script runs. Cards for dad. Posts about the man who taught you to ride a bike. Brunches and ties and “world’s best father” mugs. And somewhere in the middle of all of it sits a woman who did every single one of those things alone, watching a holiday celebrate a role she has been filling by herself for years. So let … - [My Love Language: Acts of Service](https://pinkshewrote.com/my-love-language-acts-of-service/): I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when … - [Signs a Man Is a Drone: 7 Dating Red Flags He's Using You](https://pinkshewrote.com/signs-this-man-is-a-drone/): Welcome back to the Honey Bee Mindset (catch up with chapter one here). This week we are pulling apart one of the most draining types of men a woman can deal with. The drone. The one you like. The one you are dating. The one who feels like a partner until you look closer and realize you are carrying the entire thing alone. What Is … - [Women Are Resourceful: The Labor No One Thanks Us For](https://pinkshewrote.com/women-are-resourceful-the-labor-no-one-thanks-us-for/): Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. … - [Why Men Give the Bare Minimum And Society Taught Them To](https://pinkshewrote.com/why-men-give-the-bare-minimum-and-society-taught-them-to/): From childhood to relationships, society raises men to be catered to, and women to carry the weight. It’s time we talk about the coddling of men. - [Why Female Bees Evict Males Every Winter and What That Means for Women Today](https://pinkshewrote.com/why-female-bees-evict-males-every-winter-and-what-that-means-for-women-today/): Female honey bees kick male drones out of the hive every winter and the reason why says everything about women, men, and who actually keeps things running. Read the full breakdown on Pink She Wrote. - [Maybe I’m Glad I Didn’t Get Ariana Grande’s Concert Tickets](https://pinkshewrote.com/maybe-im-glad-i-didnt-get-ariana-grandes-concert-tickets/): So last year, Ariana Grande announced her tour and I was excited but hesitant. I wasn’t feeling the last album (only two songs did it for me), and on top of that, I had just gotten laid off. So I held off, thinking I’d maybe grab last minute tickets this year instead. Then she announced a new album dropping this summer, and honestly? I’m hoping … - [What 'Wanting to Be Chosen' Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth](https://pinkshewrote.com/what-wanting-to-be-chosen-is-actually-doing-to-your-self-worth/): The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with … - [Why Are You Really Having That Baby? (And No, Your Reasons Aren't as Noble as You Think)](https://pinkshewrote.com/why-are-you-really-having-that-baby-and-no-your-reasons-arent-as-noble-as-you-think/): Let me start with the basics. I am a woman. Born a woman. And by biology, that means I came equipped with ovaries and reproductive eggs, patiently waiting for a single sperm to show up after what is, let’s be honest, often a two-minute main sex event. Nine months of pregnancy. Then a baby. And then people look at you like you’re supposed to be … - [Not Every Friend Is Meant to Stay And That's Okay](https://pinkshewrote.com/not-every-friend-is-meant-to-stay-and-thats-okay/): I don’t have a lot of friends and I don’t need a lot of them. I can make friends because I will meet a lot  of people throughout my life that are going to be there for only a few years, a season, a few days, or just a moment and I don’t really mind. Many friends come and they go.  I don’t expect many … - [No" Is A Complete Sentence: Every Reason You Need To Finally Use It](https://pinkshewrote.com/no-is-a-complete-sentence-every-reason-you-need-to-finally-use-it/): Say no people, it protects your peace. Say no because you don’t want to. Say no because you do not owe anyone anything.  Say no if you don’t like that person. Say no because it will only inconvenience you. Say no because you been putting others needs before yours Say no because he/she doesn’t deserve your time. Say no because you have a bad feeling … - [My First Solo Trip to Tampa, Florida — A BTS Concert Experience](https://pinkshewrote.com/my-first-solo-trip-to-tampa-florida-a-bts-concert-experience/): I always wanted to go on a solo trip as a woman, and as an only child and INFJ (Introverted,Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging), I just knew it would be a WONDERFUL experience. So where did I go? Tampa, Florida — to see my favorite K-pop group, BTS, in concert! For a few years of being ARMY (BTS’s fanbase), I had been waiting and anticipating seeing BTS live in concert. My original plan … - [Sorry, I'm Not Doing "Hating Mondays" This Year](https://pinkshewrote.com/sorry-im-not-doing-hating-mondays-this-year/): Why does Monday have to suck? Actually, scratch that. Why does Monday have to suck at all? I’m sure you’ve heard all the obvious answers: it’s the beginning of the work week (no shit), cue the Sunday scaries, and so on. Trust me, I get it. I’ve been there. But this year, I don’t plan to stay there. After experiencing thousands of Mondays through school, … ## Pages - [My Soundtrack](https://pinkshewrote.com/my-soundtrack/): Welcome to my soundtrack. Step into my world. Whimsical, feminine, a little chaotic, always unapologetic. This is the music behind Pink She Wrote. The songs playing while I write, dream, spiral, and fall in love with being a woman all over again. If my life was a movie, this would be the score. The glow ups, the heartbreaks, the girl dinner nights, the moments I … - [Subscribe](https://pinkshewrote.com/subscribe-here/) - [Is He a Drone? The Ultimate Quiz](https://pinkshewrote.com/is-he-a-drone-the-ultimate-quiz/): What Is a Drone? In the Honey Bee Mindset, every man falls into one of two categories. He’s either a Worker Bee or he’s a Drone. A Worker Bee builds. He contributes. He shows up, adds value, and makes the hive stronger just by being in it. He protects your peace instead of disturbing it. A Drone does none of that. A Drone exists to take. He takes … - [](https://pinkshewrote.com/343-2/): Is He a Drone? | Pink She Wrote Pink She Wrote Is He a Drone? In the Honey Bee Mindset, every man is either a Worker Bee or a Drone. A Worker Bee builds, contributes, and protects your peace. A Drone takes your time and energy and gives back the bare minimum, if anything at all. This isn’t about whether he loves you. It’s about … - [Quizzes](https://pinkshewrote.com/quizzes/): Is He a Drone? | Pink She Wrote Pink She Wrote Is He a Drone? In the Honey Bee Mindset, every man is either a Worker Bee or a Drone. A Worker Bee builds, contributes, and protects your peace. A Drone takes your time and energy and gives back the bare minimum, if anything at all. This isn’t about whether he loves you. It’s about … - [About](https://pinkshewrote.com/about/):   - [Contact](https://pinkshewrote.com/contact/) - [Blog](https://pinkshewrote.com/blog-2/) ## Optional - [Agent (MCP protocol)](websites-agents.hostinger.com/pinkshewrote.com/mcp) [comment]: # (Generated by Hostinger Tools Plugin)