• Maybe I’m Glad I Didn’t Get Ariana Grande’s Concert Tickets

    So last year, Ariana Grande announced her tour and I was excited but hesitant. I wasn’t feeling the last album (only two songs did it for me), and on top of that, I had just gotten laid off. So I held off, thinking I’d maybe grab last minute tickets this year instead. Then she announced…

  • What ‘Wanting to Be Chosen’ Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth

    The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong…

  • Why Are You Really Having That Baby? (And No, Your Reasons Aren’t as Noble as You Think)

    Let me start with the basics. I am a woman. Born a woman. And by biology, that means I came equipped with ovaries and reproductive eggs, patiently waiting for a single sperm to show up after what is, let’s be honest, often a two-minute main sex event. Nine months of pregnancy. Then a baby. And…