Why Are You Really Having That Baby? (And No, Your Reasons Aren’t as Noble as You Think)

Let me start with the basics. I am a woman. Born a woman. And by biology, that means I came equipped with ovaries and reproductive eggs, patiently waiting for a single sperm to show up after what is, let’s be honest, often a two-minute main sex event. Nine months of pregnancy. Then a baby. And then people look at you like you’re supposed to be …

No” Is A Complete Sentence: Every Reason You Need To Finally Use It

Say no people, it protects your peace. Say no because you don’t want to. Say no because you do not owe anyone anything.  Say no if you don’t like that person. Say no because it will only inconvenience you. Say no because you been putting others needs before yours Say no because he/she doesn’t deserve your time. Say no because you have a bad feeling …

My First Solo Trip to Tampa, Florida — A BTS Concert Experience

I always wanted to go on a solo trip as a woman, and as an only child and INFJ (Introverted,Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging), I just knew it would be a WONDERFUL experience. So where did I go? Tampa, Florida — to see my favorite K-pop group, BTS, in concert! For a few years of being ARMY (BTS’s fanbase), I had been waiting and anticipating seeing BTS live in concert. My original plan …

Sorry, I’m Not Doing “Hating Mondays” This Year

Why does Monday have to suck? Actually, scratch that. Why does Monday have to suck at all? I’m sure you’ve heard all the obvious answers: it’s the beginning of the work week (no shit), cue the Sunday scaries, and so on. Trust me, I get it. I’ve been there. But this year, I don’t plan to stay there. After experiencing thousands of Mondays through school, …