We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are …
Welcome to another episode of addressing drone behavior. Today we’re debunking the myths society keeps recycling about men. The idea that grown men are somehow incapable of basic human functioning without a woman standing behind them managing their lives. Let’s get into it. Myth: Men Don’t Memorize Dates False. Men memorize what matters to THEM. They know their favorite team’s entire schedule down to the …
I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …
My sex ed class taught me one thing. Be afraid. STDs. HIV. Pregnancy. That was the whole curriculum. Fear dressed up as education. Nobody talked about consent. Nobody talked about pleasure. Nobody talked about what happens when a fifteen year old’s nudes end up in a group chat by third period. We got a diagram of a uterus and a warning, and we were sent …
If a man’s dating profile says he is “open to short,” “open to long term,” “casual,” and “friendship” all at once, read it again. That is not a man keeping his options open. That is a man telling you, in writing, that you are an option. And you keep falling for it. He is not undecided. He is unbothered. He has no intention of choosing, …
I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …
Welcome back to the Honey Bee Mindset (catch up with chapter one here). This week we are pulling apart one of the most draining types of men a woman can deal with. The drone. The one you like. The one you are dating. The one who feels like a partner until you look closer and realize you are carrying the entire thing alone. What Is …
The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …
