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The Coddling Myths About Men That Are Just BS
Welcome to another episode of addressing drone behavior. Today we’re debunking the myths society keeps recycling about men. The idea that grown men are somehow incapable of basic human functioning without a woman standing behind them managing their lives. Let’s get into it. Myth: Men Don’t Memorize Dates False. Men memorize what matters to THEM. They know their favorite team’s entire schedule down to the …
Are Girlfriends the New Mommies?
I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …
Let Your Friend Learn Her Own Relationship Lesson
Have you ever tried to fix your friend’s relationship problems by giving your opinion and advice, sure she would follow it, only to watch her repeat the same pattern? I have. And the cold hard lesson is this: you cannot save every woman you know or love. At the end of the day, she is going to do what she wants until she finally gets …
Dating Profile Red Flags: Why “Open to Short or Long Term” Means He Is Not Serious
If a man’s dating profile says he is “open to short,” “open to long term,” “casual,” and “friendship” all at once, read it again. That is not a man keeping his options open. That is a man telling you, in writing, that you are an option. And you keep falling for it. He is not undecided. He is unbothered. He has no intention of choosing, …
My Love Language: Acts of Service
I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …
Signs a Man Is a Drone: 7 Dating Red Flags He’s Using You
Welcome back to the Honey Bee Mindset (catch up with chapter one here). This week we are pulling apart one of the most draining types of men a woman can deal with. The drone. The one you like. The one you are dating. The one who feels like a partner until you look closer and realize you are carrying the entire thing alone. What Is …