About two weeks ago, a TikTok video put Sun & Bloom Cafe on my radar. It’s a new cafe that opened near me. Beautiful aesthetic, according to the video. But the comments told a different story. People said the employees don’t greet customers and leave an awkward, cold impression. I almost skipped it. Then I checked Google reviews. Overwhelmingly positive. So I gave it a …
We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are …
I’m a writer. My imagination is loud and it doesn’t shut off. Stories and fanfiction are how I get it out of my system. Lately that’s meant AI chat: you play a character, the AI plays another, and the two of you build a world together. It’s addictive. It’s fun. And it’s not going away. If you write for fun, roleplay, or live for a …
Welcome to another episode of addressing drone behavior. Today we’re debunking the myths society keeps recycling about men. The idea that grown men are somehow incapable of basic human functioning without a woman standing behind them managing their lives. Let’s get into it. Myth: Men Don’t Memorize Dates False. Men memorize what matters to THEM. They know their favorite team’s entire schedule down to the …
Hi, I’m Noelle and I am an emotional shopper. An emotional shopper, like an emotional eater, shops through neutral emotions and bad ones. Every feeling becomes a reason to buy. Aren’t all women emotional shoppers? Probably. But my situation runs deeper. Almost every day I’d go online, where shopping takes seconds, and I’d spend on impulse the moment something caught my eye. Over time I …
BTS announced they are not submitting their music for consideration at this year’s Grammy Awards. All seven members posted the same message, translated from Korean: “We’ve decided not to submit our work for this year’s Grammy Awards. We hope music will be recognized and loved for what it is, rather than being divided by region or language. Thank you, as always, to ARMY and everyone …
I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …
Hey ladies! It’s Noelle, and today I’m getting personal. Here are 20 facts about me. My sign is Cancer, with Virgo Rising and a Libra Moon. My MBTI is INFJ. I’m a dog mom. My havapoo (Havanese/Poodle mix) is named James Bond, and yes, he’s just as charming as his namesake. I’m ARMY. BTS has my whole heart. My bias is Kim Taehyung, my bias wrecker is …
My sex ed class taught me one thing. Be afraid. STDs. HIV. Pregnancy. That was the whole curriculum. Fear dressed up as education. Nobody talked about consent. Nobody talked about pleasure. Nobody talked about what happens when a fifteen year old’s nudes end up in a group chat by third period. We got a diagram of a uterus and a warning, and we were sent …
