Dating Relationships & Dating

My Love Language: Acts of Service

I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …

Relationships & Dating Dating

Signs a Man Is a Drone: 7 Dating Red Flags He’s Using You

Welcome back to the Honey Bee Mindset (catch up with chapter one here). This week we are pulling apart one of the most draining types of men a woman can deal with. The drone. The one you like. The one you are dating. The one who feels like a partner until you look closer and realize you are carrying the entire thing alone. What Is …

Womanhood

Women Are Resourceful: The Labor No One Thanks Us For

Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. …

Relationships & Dating

What ‘Wanting to Be Chosen’ Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth

The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …

Life

Why Are You Really Having That Baby? (And No, Your Reasons Aren’t as Noble as You Think)

Let me start with the basics. I am a woman. Born a woman. And by biology, that means I came equipped with ovaries and reproductive eggs, patiently waiting for a single sperm to show up after what is, let’s be honest, often a two-minute main sex event. Nine months of pregnancy. Then a baby. And then people look at you like you’re supposed to be …

Blog

No” Is A Complete Sentence: Every Reason You Need To Finally Use It

Say no people, it protects your peace. Say no because you don’t want to. Say no because you do not owe anyone anything.  Say no if you don’t like that person. Say no because it will only inconvenience you. Say no because you been putting others needs before yours Say no because he/she doesn’t deserve your time. Say no because you have a bad feeling …