I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …
Signs a Man Is a Drone: 7 Dating Red Flags He’s Using You
Welcome back to the Honey Bee Mindset (catch up with chapter one here). This week we are pulling apart one of the most draining types of men a woman can deal with. The drone. The one you like. The one you are dating. The one who feels like a partner until you look closer and realize you are carrying the entire thing alone. What Is …
Women Are Resourceful: The Labor No One Thanks Us For
Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. …
Maybe I’m Glad I Didn’t Get Ariana Grande’s Concert Tickets
So last year, Ariana Grande announced her tour and I was excited but hesitant. I wasn’t feeling the last album (only two songs did it for me), and on top of that, I had just gotten laid off. So I held off, thinking I’d maybe grab last minute tickets this year instead. Then she announced a new album dropping this summer, and honestly? I’m hoping …
What ‘Wanting to Be Chosen’ Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth
The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …
Why Are You Really Having That Baby? (And No, Your Reasons Aren’t as Noble as You Think)
Let me start with the basics. I am a woman. Born a woman. And by biology, that means I came equipped with ovaries and reproductive eggs, patiently waiting for a single sperm to show up after what is, let’s be honest, often a two-minute main sex event. Nine months of pregnancy. Then a baby. And then people look at you like you’re supposed to be …
Not Every Friend Is Meant to Stay And That’s Okay
I don’t have a lot of friends and I don’t need a lot of them. I can make friends because I will meet a lot of people throughout my life that are going to be there for only a few years, a season, a few days, or just a moment and I don’t really mind. Many friends come and they go. I don’t expect many …
No” Is A Complete Sentence: Every Reason You Need To Finally Use It
Say no people, it protects your peace. Say no because you don’t want to. Say no because you do not owe anyone anything. Say no if you don’t like that person. Say no because it will only inconvenience you. Say no because you been putting others needs before yours Say no because he/she doesn’t deserve your time. Say no because you have a bad feeling …










