Are Girlfriends the New Mommies?

I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …

Women Are Resourceful: The Labor No One Thanks Us For

Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. …

What ‘Wanting to Be Chosen’ Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth

The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …