We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are …
I’m a writer. My imagination is loud and it doesn’t shut off. Stories and fanfiction are how I get it out of my system. Lately that’s meant AI chat: you play a character, the AI plays another, and the two of you build a world together. It’s addictive. It’s fun. And it’s not going away. If you write for fun, roleplay, or live for a …
I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …
My sex ed class taught me one thing. Be afraid. STDs. HIV. Pregnancy. That was the whole curriculum. Fear dressed up as education. Nobody talked about consent. Nobody talked about pleasure. Nobody talked about what happens when a fifteen year old’s nudes end up in a group chat by third period. We got a diagram of a uterus and a warning, and we were sent …
Have you ever tried to fix your friend’s relationship problems by giving your opinion and advice, sure she would follow it, only to watch her repeat the same pattern? I have. And the cold hard lesson is this: you cannot save every woman you know or love. At the end of the day, she is going to do what she wants until she finally gets …
I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …
Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. …
The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …
I don’t have a lot of friends and I don’t need a lot of them. I can make friends because I will meet a lot of people throughout my life that are going to be there for only a few years, a season, a few days, or just a moment and I don’t really mind. Many friends come and they go. I don’t expect many …
