Is being called “wife material” really a compliment? Let’s talk about the expectations behind the label, unpaid emotional labor, gender roles, and why I’d rather be called partner material.
Common Delulu Thoughts Women Believe When It Comes To Dating Men
We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are …
Can We Talk About AI Chat?
I’m a writer. My imagination is loud and it doesn’t shut off. Stories and fanfiction are how I get it out of my system. Lately that’s meant AI chat: you play a character, the AI plays another, and the two of you build a world together. It’s addictive. It’s fun. And it’s not going away. If you write for fun, roleplay, or live for a …
Are Girlfriends the New Mommies?
I came across a TikTok from The Cut, featuring writer Angeline Chapin talking about her article on women funding their boyfriends’ lives. These women are out here making more money than their boyfriends, picking up after them, teaching them how to cook, and helping them build resumes and land jobs. What the actual fuck. Chapin frames this as a Gen Z problem. It’s not. This …
If I Ran A Sex Education Class
My sex ed class taught me one thing. Be afraid. STDs. HIV. Pregnancy. That was the whole curriculum. Fear dressed up as education. Nobody talked about consent. Nobody talked about pleasure. Nobody talked about what happens when a fifteen year old’s nudes end up in a group chat by third period. We got a diagram of a uterus and a warning, and we were sent …
Let Your Friend Learn Her Own Relationship Lesson
Have you ever tried to fix your friend’s relationship problems by giving your opinion and advice, sure she would follow it, only to watch her repeat the same pattern? I have. And the cold hard lesson is this: you cannot save every woman you know or love. At the end of the day, she is going to do what she wants until she finally gets …
My Love Language: Acts of Service
I took the 5 Love Languages quiz and it told me what I already knew. My love language is acts of service. No surprise there. I am practical. I am pragmatic. When it comes to love, actions speak louder than words, and acts of service fits me like a glove. I do not get butterflies over a paragraph in my texts. I get them when …
Women Are Resourceful: The Labor No One Thanks Us For
Women are resourceful. Period. There is a reason Mother Nature is a she. Women Build Life From Nothing Almost every event you have ever attended was coordinated by a woman. The guest list. The food. The vibe. The cleanup nobody noticed. A woman. Every baby ever born came through a woman. We grow a whole human from nothing. Then we make the milk that feeds them. …
What ‘Wanting to Be Chosen’ Is Actually Doing to Your Self Worth
The shift that changes everything. There’s a desperate, needy, or insecure version of you whether you are ready to admit it who was waiting. Refreshing his messages. Making yourself smaller. Auditioning for a role in someone else’s life and calling it love. That version of you wasn’t weak. She was just operating from the wrong script. So we shrank. We waited. We confused relief with …